why men cheat....

there is an ariticle of yahoo that lists some reasons why a man may cheat. here was the one that really got my attention:

The Family Circus 

I'm not saying it's right, and I'm not saying it's fair, but some men can feel like they're last in the family pecking order once the gaggle of children dominates schedules, time, and his wife's attention. That doesn't mean that kids drive their fathers to cheat, nor does it mean that families are to blame. It just means that the situation can make some men more vulnerable to be influenced by...

really?? so the man feels left out?? poor guy. forget about the wife who has spent all day feeling like she's been put on the back burner because it's been months since she's been out and had real conversation that doesn't include the words elmo, goldfish, or poo poo. or the mother who sometimes feel she doesn't have an identity anymore because even her husband has started calling her "mom.". does that make us vulnerable to the nice guy at the grocery store that offers to help us to our car? does that mean we can use this as an excuse to cheat??

maybe if these men spent a little more time working on their marriage rather than their short game (golf lingo~for those who don't know), they wouldn't need a list of reasons to cheat...

and have you noticed, there are always reasons/excuses for men's bad hehavior?? he was either frustrated or neglected or some other bullshit reason. a woman is just a bitch or slut.

and there's my rant for the day!